The age does not define the level of maturity an individual has. People of all age groups can be parents, of course not the one freshly born. They are too young so cannot be, not possible.
When you search google two responses come out when you are looking for the definition of parent, one is "a person's father or mother" and the other is "be or act as a mother or father to (someone)".
So, today we are discussing the first definition, the one where the person acts like a parent irrespective of the age.
Parenting someone is a conscious activity. An activity, which requires focus, composed behavior and understanding of other individuals needs. The job does not end with the delivery of childbirth. Generally, we see parents give birth to children, lead children and believe that they are just their extended bodies. So, every instruction they were given, must be respected by the children. The issue remains the same from the birth of a child until the death of the parent.
Earlier people did not understand much about the development of consciousness. The sooner they could understand the development of consciousness the better it would have been for all the society.
Reproducing someone cannot make one a parent, taking care of their emotions is equally important. These days we see unsettled people becoming parents, they are not able to take care of their emotions, so how can they take care of another person.
Placing blame is often the best way to delay the solution, so we see parents blaming each other or the child as the reason for unrest in life. The unrest is because of lack of awareness. It has nothing to do with the behavior of the child.
So, before becoming a parent, become conscious. The most important thing in life.
When you search google two responses come out when you are looking for the definition of parent, one is "a person's father or mother" and the other is "be or act as a mother or father to (someone)".
So, today we are discussing the first definition, the one where the person acts like a parent irrespective of the age.
Parenting someone is a conscious activity. An activity, which requires focus, composed behavior and understanding of other individuals needs. The job does not end with the delivery of childbirth. Generally, we see parents give birth to children, lead children and believe that they are just their extended bodies. So, every instruction they were given, must be respected by the children. The issue remains the same from the birth of a child until the death of the parent.
Earlier people did not understand much about the development of consciousness. The sooner they could understand the development of consciousness the better it would have been for all the society.
Reproducing someone cannot make one a parent, taking care of their emotions is equally important. These days we see unsettled people becoming parents, they are not able to take care of their emotions, so how can they take care of another person.
Placing blame is often the best way to delay the solution, so we see parents blaming each other or the child as the reason for unrest in life. The unrest is because of lack of awareness. It has nothing to do with the behavior of the child.
So, before becoming a parent, become conscious. The most important thing in life.