Support in meaning means a place or a thing with the help of which you can walk or move ahead. The best part about support is that it is ALWAYS positive, till we shift it to become negative.
How we shift it?
Well, we shift it by clinging to it too much, such that we become a filthy leech and suck the blood on the one who is supporting us. Sometimes the communication mediums are shattered forever, such that it is never restored.
Support must be taken with care, such that we do not overpressure the one supporting us. We often take support from our friends. We sometimes, end up losing them, because the pressure is too much.
Often we play the role of friendship, within a victim and rescuer cycle. We become a victim of a situation and then we seek help from our friend. The process is fine if your friend is only focused on helping you and you also want to be released but generally, we do not want to lose our thought pattern.
We want the other person to change but never ourselves and thus we end up losing our positive support system. The support must thus be taken only when needed, and rest of the time a praise for life must be there, so we have a positive thought to share with the world.
Most of the people we see in the world have this problem of creating life on the basis of the old thought pattern, without actually releasing the incident. Thus, our creation is always affected by victimhood and thus, not reaching the goal of being an independent identity.
How to build a positive support system?
How we shift it?
Well, we shift it by clinging to it too much, such that we become a filthy leech and suck the blood on the one who is supporting us. Sometimes the communication mediums are shattered forever, such that it is never restored.
Support must be taken with care, such that we do not overpressure the one supporting us. We often take support from our friends. We sometimes, end up losing them, because the pressure is too much.
Often we play the role of friendship, within a victim and rescuer cycle. We become a victim of a situation and then we seek help from our friend. The process is fine if your friend is only focused on helping you and you also want to be released but generally, we do not want to lose our thought pattern.
We want the other person to change but never ourselves and thus we end up losing our positive support system. The support must thus be taken only when needed, and rest of the time a praise for life must be there, so we have a positive thought to share with the world.
Most of the people we see in the world have this problem of creating life on the basis of the old thought pattern, without actually releasing the incident. Thus, our creation is always affected by victimhood and thus, not reaching the goal of being an independent identity.
How to build a positive support system?
- work daily on yourself and try to find out where you crossed the limit of being human.
- how often does your statement start with criticism?
- how many times in a day you criticise yourself?
- how many people you communicate with?
- how many people you complimented?
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