Tuesday, 6 February 2018

When you truly love yourself

It has been a really long time when there was a contact established with "myself". Surrounded by noise and people and no sense of privacy or space, is the ideology that has ruled the country for a very long time.
We find, that we always are moving or are made to move from one form of dependency to another, never allowed to get in touch with yourself. Relationship with everyone outside is explored but the one true relationship with yourself is left untouched.
   This relationship comes to life when you get lost in silence and when everything just feels like it has fallen in the hole or pit or maybe you are moving through a black hole.
The contact with yourself is the greatest healing power you can ever get. It is the greatest sense of victory to meet yourself.
All the diseases are discomforts in the heart or mind. The mind which always keeps luring for more around and more adding each day to bring a sense of fulfillment. But, the day this enlightenment is dawned on you, that any amount of people and any amount of material cannot add joy to your life, is the greatest revelation.
It brings you to halt, it comes with a sense of loss and grief too. As your false identity is lost and the true self-emerges like a phoenix you realize that in the quest of fulfilling and satisfying the simple basic needs of life, was easy but the unending list of desires can never be completed. Things will keep on adding and so do people, first your parents, then teachers, siblings, friends, mates, spouse, children, grandchildren, life ends.
In this cycle the most important person, the root of the tree i.e. you are missed and you eventually become aware of the fact that everything is lost.
                                                 
So, my advice is, take a break in life, from all the social system, from all the people, travel alone and stay alone for a few days, meet yourself, accept yourself, stay with yourself, till you emerge from yourself. 

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