We are never taught about true love, we are always taught, conditional love. As a child, mom loves the child who is more intelligent and smart, as a student a teacher loves the student who tops the class, as a girl you love the boy who meets your checklist or vice versa.
But as a 25 plus or 20 plus what is that we go after, it is love or just sex (intercourse) we are looking for. In most of our movies, we always find people telling us, that someone will love you completely or wholly or a man of your dreams kind of stories is fed in our minds. But is it true that we need to wait for someone to love me? Really?
I don’t think so, with an increase in the number of people who are falling for this idea, we find more conflicts people struggling with their lives.
The age of innovation we have between 5 to 15 are the most important years, as at this age you become one with your dream, people who start early generally end up becoming more successful on their paths. But why are we losing so many people to the wrong idea or misconception of “love”, you are lovable the way you are, you do not fit into someone’s standards to be loved?
People will always judge you and try to manipulate you to their benefits in India this is so prominent, as we believe in “dog eats dog” philosophy, so to survive you need a guard at any or all ages.
So you are asked to follow the crowd and never allowed to stand out. The reason, if you stand out figures will be pointed at you and your life will lose its meaning.
Life has already lost its meaning to the process of demand and supply, what can be the loss further, when your parents cannot support you when you stand up from the crowd.
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