True love is never binding in nature and always is open to change and acceptance. The love form that got changed with time into a mere or mundane form of conservation is what we are looking at today in the world.
True love is all about respect and complete acceptance of decision of the other person, no efforts of modification or leaving the being as a petty material object which can never be addressed or accepted or found. Expression of hugs, kisses and gifts have overtaken the emotion and joy of simply living the expression called love.
In my recent interaction with a romantic lover, I found the process of non-kissing a daunting task for the other being, as it is integrated part of love. Well, maybe the verb form of love i.e. doing love or lovemaking is commonly understood as love. So, like an object, I need to look for someone to express my emotions and so if I disapprove of kissing or hugging or sleeping would mean that I am not sane.
Maybe earlier sometimes I think there was nothing called love, and in order to add some spice to life and philosophy, the term love was coined and so was the effect that the simple joy of living with any other sentinel being was reduced to just addition of hugs and kisses and not to the process of living.
Loves and Kisses are good as a doing form of love but, can never replace the actual aspect of love.The simple process of living and the simple process of giving.
What can I give best to anyone in my life, is my time, so when I am ready to give my time, why would you lose me for not giving just the lips. In India, since sex and kiss were considered bad initially and not open for such interactions in public, so people always want to go for hugs and kisses and sex in dark rooms of cinema or closed rooms.
These are good for the process of senses and sensual development but love is never dependent on these things. So a simple love would be completely accepting and respecting the decision of no love and no kiss for as long as both partners are not agreeing to it.
This is a personal account or experience, which people may or may not agree with.
True love is all about respect and complete acceptance of decision of the other person, no efforts of modification or leaving the being as a petty material object which can never be addressed or accepted or found. Expression of hugs, kisses and gifts have overtaken the emotion and joy of simply living the expression called love.
Maybe earlier sometimes I think there was nothing called love, and in order to add some spice to life and philosophy, the term love was coined and so was the effect that the simple joy of living with any other sentinel being was reduced to just addition of hugs and kisses and not to the process of living.
Loves and Kisses are good as a doing form of love but, can never replace the actual aspect of love.The simple process of living and the simple process of giving.
What can I give best to anyone in my life, is my time, so when I am ready to give my time, why would you lose me for not giving just the lips. In India, since sex and kiss were considered bad initially and not open for such interactions in public, so people always want to go for hugs and kisses and sex in dark rooms of cinema or closed rooms.
These are good for the process of senses and sensual development but love is never dependent on these things. So a simple love would be completely accepting and respecting the decision of no love and no kiss for as long as both partners are not agreeing to it.
This is a personal account or experience, which people may or may not agree with.
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